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This soccer publication is strangely tedious, yet strangely compelling. Its title causes confusion. The Dear England title already is used by a hit theatrical production, an upcoming TV show, and a national address penned by Gareth Southgate in 2021.

This edition of Dear England isn’t formally connected to those. It represents an peculiar entry in the expanding Dear England universe, a book about guidance: a typically dry top-level coach trope that Southgate sticks to doggedly, employing the words “leader”, “guiding” or “leadership” a minimum of 500 times across its 336-page length.

Themes Posed

“What are leaders? What is the role of a leader? What knowledge do leaders possess?” the author questions in the opening, outlining his position, but stopping short to explore “When are leaders?”, questions probably reserved for a second book.

Otherwise, this book has a notable absence at its core. It’s an attempt in subtly confrontational self-defense, in nearly but not entirely stating the actual thing, jumping adeptly from unresolved issue to raw emotion across a series of pie charts, corporate platitudes and digressions about Thomas Cromwell.

Immersion

Going through the book is like listening to your family members having a polite but deeply felt argument in the next room while you’re trying to pay attention on a business seminar titled “Countless Explanations for My Eventual Success”. But it is also impossible to put down, as the author keeps coming close to something you actually desire to hear about, before abruptly veering away.

Revelations

There are typically controversial revelations in works in this genre, such is the peeled-eyeball obsession with the role of England manager. The most striking examples encompass: he resolved he was definitely going to quit as England manager after fans hurled beer glasses at him at the European Championship; he almost chose to withdrawing from the game at half-time against Bulgaria in 2019 after his squad members were targeted with slurs; he invented the idea of dedicated restart experts and the entire league in the English football is now following his lead; he has now abandoned his passion for soccer, a surprising confession thrown away in a short passage at the end.

Managing England through a time of anger, hope, political ferment and lockdown was a harsh experience. The bruises are evidently still unhealed.

Generic Content

Otherwise, the text is saturated with an computer-generated linguistic mush of generic leadership chat. Advanced copies of this publication were shared with critics under secrecy pacts ahead of release, presumably out of concern someone might leak that “difficult conversations can, by their nature, be difficult”, that you should always consider the consequences, that leadership happens where evolution intersects with empathy.

Emotional Core

There is however real feeling here. Managing England through a time of anger, aspiration, political ferment and confinement was a harsh experience. The bruises are obviously still unhealed, even if presented in a jargon-laden reimagining of the traditional leader story: why I was actually right about each issue from the start.

Detailed Instances

The book’s introductory section, Trojan-horsed as exciting accounts of the championship match of the European Championship, is all about how effective he actually was at player changes (the major Southgate gripe centering on he was not effective at substitutes). Further on, he explores significant detail about how he oversaw the championship match of 2021 impeccably – particularly the losing spot-kick decider – because he adhered to a established procedure, which must mean that throwing on youthful talents very late to take the crucial kick of their lives was logical and correct.

That approach was proved right by a winning shootout against the Swiss team at a later tournament after a game where England spent the full duration looking as if they were attempting to put on a jumper the backwards. “The control we exerted in that penalty decider was simply exhilarating,” the author notes, amid equating the display to elite military units killing a notorious figure. Dear me.

Withheld Details

When we do get close to a revelation, he retreats from specifying people or providing the substance. We hear there were problematic England squad members who insisted on more consideration, perhaps because they were spoilt early in their careers. But as you expect hopefully, Southgate is quickly veering off into an area titled a specific management theory, which claims that as opposed to a assemblage of characteristics or ideals, team environment is in fact an element that is developed by, gah, enough, no more.

Strengths

Within the better parts are when he writes about the piecemeal nature of developing resilience in youth, or how he sought to articulate what it means to be English more coherently and more helpfully than any public personality in the public eye. The standout section, there is a truly compelling account of that distressing night in Sofia where England’s African heritage squad members were targeted with hatred (and afterwards supported vigorously by their manager).

Sincere Finale

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